If love is so easy, why are relationships so hard?

These monthly live Q&A sessions are centered around each module of the Quest. Each month you'll have a chance to ask your personal questions live. These sessions will be included for the full year when you sign up today.

Because we truly want you to succeed on this journey – and ultimately, that does take two – we’re offering you a very special gift today: When you join the Love Quest now your partner can join too – 100% free of charge!

One of Emanuela's favourite tools. It ensures that things continue to flow at home and between the two of you, and that practical matters are properly arranged. It also bring more excitement, intimacy, and fun!

In this ebook, that you receive as a gift from us, we share four golden rules with you. They are presented in the form of small practical examples. Each one ends with an exercise that we highly recommend doing. (And in case you were wondering: yes, we do these exercises ourselves too!)

Connection is the foundation of intimacy and love. Without it, we are not in a relationship at all. That’s why the first week is all about reconnecting with your partner.

You will learn:

- how to (re)connect and communicate your love to your partner

- the various ways in which we give and receive love and how your partner may understand and receive love in a different way than you do

- the importance of rituals and how they can deepen your connection

You will also start with a challenge to boost your connection that involves learning about the three pillars that sustain any love relationship.

The second week is all about unraveling some of your subconscious patterns in relationships. We will dive into the cyclic nature of relationships and I will show you how we constantly move through 7 stages. 

You will learn:

- that there is no beginning and no end in relationships

- why pain, crisis and disconnection are opportunities to grow

- how to move through the “ceilings” and “walls” we hit in our relationships

- how to practice speaking your truth

- why vulnerability is essential for any relationship to thrive

- how to create a safe environment to be emotionally naked with each other

During the third week we focus on communication on a very deep emotional level. It is time for healing. Through Image therapy and EFT you will get in touch with your deepest (unexpressed) emotions.

You will learn:

- how to turn a (near) break-up into a breakthrough

- how curiosity can help you move through a crisis

- how to cross the bridge to each other’s world and create a sacred space for sharing

- why certain things about your partner trigger you and vice versa

- which emotions you were not able to express in your childhood and why learning to express them safely is the key to your own healing and that of your relationship.

This week you’re given a beautiful and powerful correlating practice for you in store. 

The fourth week is all about intimacy and sex. We’re diving into sexuality, play, foreplay, the feminine and the masculine; you’ll become a true love alchemist this week.

You will learn:

- what intimacy is and how to create it

- why intimacy and sex are two different things, but intimacy can lead to sex

- what attraction is and how it works

- how attraction needs the opposite of what love needs

- how the feminine works in sexuality and how is this different from the masculine

- how “no desire to have sex” is actually an invitation to step out of the comfort zone and redefine sex over and over again

You will discover the break and the gaspedal in sex and intimacy and how to use them – the practices will be juicy.

This week is all about the most important relationship of all: the one you have with yourself. In long-term relationships we often either lose ourselves or are not connected to our needs enough. Knowing how to tap into your emotions and use them for guidance is the key again. 

You will learn:

- how to rediscover your own unique strengths and realise how special you are

- that you can only realise your needs through your feelings

- how to get more clear on those needs by tapping into your emotions

- that forgiveness is liberating and gives you and your partner the freedom to reconnect and heal

- how to forgive yourself and your partner

We’ll have some powerful forgiveness exercises for you this week that also help you understand the importance of gratitude on this journey. And as a bonus, you’ll get a powerful inner child meditation. Plus, we’ll create a plan to boost your emotional immune system. 

What’s your ultimate vision for your relationship? During our last week together in this program, we’re building a plan for your extraordinary future together.

You will learn:

- how to create a vision for your relationship and turn that vision into an action plan

- how to become a better listener and how that will transform your relationship

- how to create a space to dream and share those dreams with each other

- how to apply the “positive flooding dialogue” (Image therapy) 

how to “seal the deal” and truly make a commitment to your relationship

These six weeks may have finished, but you’re just getting started now. You will be left with a specific year theme to work on for the upcoming 365 days and weekly exercises to boost the levels of connection, intimacy and fun in your relationship. 

Bonus of this last week: the masculine and feminine meditation which helps you deepen your connection with each other time after time.